Our Spiffy Life
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Fun July
We've settled into the bay area and are now working on exploring all there is. Three weeks ago took the Bart (our new favorite way to travel) into San Francisco and braved the Muni line to Golden Gate Park. The Muni is the the municipal transportation in the city and is known to be difficult to navigate and notoriously late. At Golden Gate park they had an amazing playground with huge castles and climbing structures and a free concert performed by the San Francisco Symphony. After spending a few hours there we went in search of food and found the worst cupcake I have ever had - even Z wouldn't eat the icing! - and went home exhausted and happy.
The following weekend we decided we were in need of the sun. I've been loving the summer here, it's rarely over 70 degrees, and I appreciate it all the more while watching news of the heat wave that is killing people and crops across the south. With that said, I do miss the sun sometimes. The cure for this, we decided, was a weekend camping trip to New Hogan Lake in the "Gold Country", meaning inland Northern California. The lake was pretty, the weather was hot (high 80s!) and there were frogs everywhere!
When I was little (up through my early teens) I spent every summer vacation on my grandparents farm in west Texas. At that time there were always summer rains. After a heavy rain, starting at twilight, under their street light 1/2 mile from their nearest neighbor, the frogs came out. They had buried themselves in the ground after the last rain stated to dry, awaiting the next shower. They were ugly slimy warty bullfrogs and all the kids loved them. There were baby ones so tiny I could cup two or three in my hands, up to huge ones I could barely lift with two hands and was slightly afraid of. We (myself, my sister and other cousins) spent many a summer night being chewed on by mosquitoes and filling feed barrels with frogs, only to unceremoniously dump them out at the end of the night to allow them to go hide before the hunt resumed the next evening.
I remember the joy and excitement we had at that time and I wanted to give Z some of that. Alas, I am no longer a tomboy. I am not a fan of slimy yucky things anymore. I don't know when or why it changed but now I just think of all the germs they may have and get grossed out. Scott however had no such issues. He was wonderful with her. During the day I sat on the edge of the lake making sure the dogs weren't getting eaten by ducks (a childhood trauma I'll never let go of) while Scott and Z waded out chest high for her, through the muck that always gathers at the edge of a lake, to try to catch minnows or tadpoles. And at dusk he took her frog hunting and found a huge slimy toad she loved and tons of tadpoles, most tiny babies, one the biggest I've ever seen. We released all but one tiny tree frog who now has a new residence in Z's room and is fed calcium fortified crickets. Seriously.
This past weekend we were needing a beach fix and decided to go to Santa Cruz. Santa Cruz was said to be similar to Santa Monica but with a bit colder water. Santa Monica has the pier we loved, Santa Cruz has a boardwalk. They both have beaches and the ocean. We thought this was a no brainier. We were wrong.
According to Google maps the drive is 1 1/2 hours. We were warned that traffic would be bad coming home on a Sunday so we decided to do a Saturday day trip. We left about 11 and did not get parked until 2:30. Traffic was awful the whole way and then it took us 30 minutes to find parking. It wasn't that we were looking for free parking or close parking, just ANY parking. Once we got to the boardwalk we were so disappointed. It was wall to wall people, all with that rude, arrogant tourist air that will poison any location. The beach was covered in trash, the water was freezing, and no one was smiling. Next time we'll stick with our original plan, which was to go hiking over there. I also received an email from a friend of mine when we got back from Santa Cruz that told me where the locals beaches are and that there is an 1800s steam train we could take Z on. Here's hoping it's not like the Chama Train in NM - oh how I hated that thing!
During the week Z and I spend time exploring Berkeley. There is a park about 2 miles from us that has 40 ft concrete slides carved out of the hillside that the kids go down on cardboard. Between that and Adventure Playground, which National Geographic listed as one of the the top 10 parks in the nation and one Yelp reviewer described as "Lord of the flies meets Shanty Town" we are never at a loss of things to do. If anything we are limited by my level of energy and desire to deal with other people's children.
Here's hoping for a just as exciting August!
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
It's a Wonderful Life
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Getting Out
Stay tuned for adventure updates!
Sunday, April 17, 2011
New Week, New Thoughts
Monday, April 11, 2011
Pitiful thoughts of the day
What an odd time this has been. The excitement of starting over has been tempered by the reality of multiple injuries. Just as I was getting over falling down the stairs and burning my hand I managed to tear my calf muscle. I was doing a cardio workout, taking a day off of training for the marathon because my calf was a little sore, and on the first kick I heard a horrid pop, felt my muscle recoil into my leg and fell over. Poor Scott – nothing like your wife calling you at work to come take her to the ER. ER said rest, crutches, go see ortho. So here we are 5 days later. Ortho said the deep muscle of the calf (the soleus for those that care) is torn. Good news is it will heal without surgery. Not so good news – no marathon. In fact, it will take 6 months to be 100% again. Decent news is that I will hopefully be off of crutches in 6 weeks so I can at least go to the grocery store, carry my own cup of coffee… All the things we do daily without thinking about.
These frequent injuries keep reminding me of Texas, of times that I’d rather forget, but now I can’t help but remember. There was a 3 year period where I had 3 invasive bone and ligament surgeries and multiple ER trips with crazy injuries. Who else gets a corneal abrasion lying in the bathtub? Seriously, I was lying there soaking when the shampoo bottle just fell off the edge of the tub and the cap hit my eyeball. I actually thought it popped my eyeball, it hurt so much. Then who can forget the day before my major knee surgery I was playing fetch with Lucy, the world’s best dog, and her whole 120 pounds came barreling into me at full speed and dislocated my knee on my “good” side, the one that I had surgery on 6 months prior. The list goes on but I’ll spare you any more of that pitiful reminiscing.
After that last surgery – when was that? 2003? I have been relatively injury free. Sure I’m still extraordinarily clumsy but I’ve managed to avoid the ER and orthos. But now this rash of frequent pain and doctor visits is becoming unbearable. Zandra doesn’t understand why mommy can’t play anymore and why I’m always cranky (pain does that) and poor Scott – moving, starting a new job, and now the stress of this? I was supposed to be the one taking care of the little stuff to make this transition easier for him and all I’ve managed to do is add more stress to him.
I do remain optimistic that the summer isn’t ruined. We had planned on so many adventures. Camping, the redwoods, Yosemite, sleeping in the tress in Washington, just to name a few. One of the great things about moving to Northern California was that we were no longer surrounded by desert but by the majestic nature that we favor. As long as I can walk a few miles we can still do all of these. Zandra is at that great age now where she loves being outside more than anything and I want to keep encouraging that in her. I remember family camping when I was little and it was the best fun. I’m sure it wasn’t as great for my parents but I still remember running through the grassy hills, climbing rocks and trees, playing in the creek and cooking over the campfire. The fun of those things hasn’t dimmed for me yet and I fear if she isn’t taught the joy of them early she’ll never know how much fun it can be.
The marathon is the one thing that really saddens me about all of this. It was only a ½ marathon, but still the first one of my life. It was to be an adventure with my sister. Now instead of training and motivating each other I am forced to cheer for her from the sidelines. I doubt there will be others, it doesn’t seem that I should keep physically pushing myself, but to have a body that’s not even middle age constantly turn against me is becoming a frustration I am tired of dealing with.